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Who, Me, Fitness?!?

April 26, 2021

Yikes!

So I actually wrote this a few weeks ago but I’ve hesitated to put it up, for reasons that will immediately become obvious.  I am not a fitness blogger nor do I have any desire to EVER be one, but I *DO* really enjoy reading about REAL people and their REAL struggles/successes to manage their health.  Anyone who has known me for a decent chunk of time knows that sometimes my weight is up, sometimes it is down, but it is ALWAYS something I’m working on.  So I share this for two reasons…the first is to remind MYSELF how much I accomplished in the unlikeliest of times, and the second is to show anyone who’s interested something that worked for me that MIGHT work for them.

Here I am:  41 years old and 39.5 weeks pregnant. 

Bump @ 39 weeks + 3 days

I can’t believe I am posting a picture of this on the internet, but I also can’t believe that I am so HAPPY with my body at this age/stage of life, and I feel like it’s worth documenting.  I mean, aren’t women supposed to feel crappy at the end of pregnancy?  The truth is, I would take THIS geriatric pregnant body and all its strength and energy and general badassery over my high-school three-sport-athlete body or my 25-year-old gym-addicted, carb-phobic one.  THAT acceptance in itself is an accomplishment worth shouting about.

Part of it is timing, right?  I knew going into pregnancy, at my age, after multiple miscarriages, and this time, in the middle of a pandemic, that I had to be as healthy as possible to give me and the babe a fighting chance should any challenges come our way.  So I trained for pregnancy and giving birth as if it were an athletic event.  Also, for me, anyway:  pandemic living lends itself well to structure, and this was helpful as opposed to traveling a lot and running around from event to event like a crazy person.  Right now, there is literally NOTHING going on that could get in the way of my routine.

Here’s what I did:

  • Strength:  Workouts every weekday, first thing in the morning, courtesy of the amazing prenatal program in the Tone It Up app.  I think I only skipped maybe 5 weekdays all pregnancy.  The workouts were short and challenging (if they were longer than 20 minutes I just split them in half over two days because I refused to exercise longer than that).  I absolutely LOVE everything Katrina Scott does.  She is so incredibly positive and uplifting and encouraging and EXACTLY what I need to start my day each and every day.      
  • Cardio:  2,457,462 steps over nine months, per my FitBit.  It averages out to just shy of 9k steps a day, which is not bad considering, ahem, WINTER IN MICHIGAN.  My goal was 10k steps as many days as I could.    
  • Flexibility:  Prenatal yoga, as included in the @toneitup prenatal program, and then in the third trimester I added another practice I bought from www.spinningbabies.com because I was terrified my baby would be breech (read about that HERE).  This was at the suggestion of my nurse case manager and it was VERY gentle and a great addition at the end when my body was getting a little more tender.
Workout @ 39 weeks + 3 days

I always have energy in the morning, so that’s why I did my strength training or yoga then…before I had a chance to get tired or not feel like it.  As for the steps…I usually snuck out for a neighborhood walk around 2:30 to get those in, to wake myself up a little after working in my home office all day.  It was a good time to return phone calls, too…so THANK YOU to everybody who put up with my huffing and puffing as the months went on.  It did NOT sound pretty, but I rarely skipped unless the weather was AWFUL, because I knew if I stopped moving it would be too hard to get started again.

This little program served me well!  As of 39.5 weeks, I gained exactly 25 pounds…right in range with what my OB recommended.  I’m pretty sure I put on some legit muscle as well…I mean, LOOK!  You can see my TRICEP.  I didn’t even know I HAD a tricep. ? 

Obviously, half of the weight game is nutrition, and that is a story for another post…but I *do* feel like the workouts were responsible for me feeling strong, energetic, and up for anything, even at full term.   I am looking forward to starting the Tone It Up postnatal program in early June, once I get cleared to work out.  I’ll share that journey too, if anyone is interested.  I LOVE to hear any stories about others’ fitness journeys…whether pregnancy or postnatal related, or just EVERY DAMN DAY related.  This is a battle I will fight for the rest of my life, and I feel like we are all in this together. 

Would love to hear YOUR comments and experiences. Any workouts working right now for YOU that I should try?

XOXO

Thanks for being a safe place for me to be a little vulnerable here!

My Morning Workout Buddy

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  1. Donald D Wolford says

    June 6, 2021 at 9:52 pm

    Are you going to talk about your post-natal fitness? Fitness Ben and Jerry’s in every night?

    • Chris says

      June 6, 2021 at 10:07 pm

      You are a goddess and look beautiful and strong. I feel like I’ve been around long enough to know how meaningful this was for you. Will be happy to take walks with you and the new fella soon! Xoxo

      • Melissa says

        June 7, 2021 at 9:37 pm

        You have DEFINITELY been around for ALL OF IT. Thank you for your kind words…love you, friend! 🙂

    • Jenni says

      June 7, 2021 at 10:51 am

      ? Don you’re silly!
      Great job! This was a struggle for me my first go round. Hoping to find this balance and motivation the next time.

      • Melissa says

        June 7, 2021 at 9:39 pm

        Fingers crossed for you…I don’t know if I would have found the motivation if it weren’t for my age, risk factors, and the pandemic. It is so, so hard, but I’m rooting for you! 🙂

    • Melissa says

      June 7, 2021 at 9:37 pm

      Hey, if it ain’t broke…

  2. Lucy says

    June 7, 2021 at 7:53 am

    Thanks for sharing Melissa! I wasn’t really “into fitness “ when I had my kids many years ago;however, now I am really into it. It was also super difficult for me to make time for fitness. That’s one mistake I made…not focusing on me enough. So that is great you are focusing on you! Keep that up!
    I have been a member of Burn Boot Camp in Northville since they came to town 2 years ago. I am in the best shape of my life! (Except for the hiccup I am on right now-recovering from foot surgery) I am also a lifetime Weight Watcher member as well. Oh believe me, it’s a struggle everyday and will always be for me too. Reach out anytime!

    • Melissa says

      June 7, 2021 at 9:38 pm

      I’ve seen your Burn check-ins…sounds like a really great group of ladies! I swear that is half the battle…finding something you like and doing it with PEOPLE you like. Good luck with your foot! 🙂

  3. Helen says

    June 7, 2021 at 1:18 pm

    You inspire me!
    As a mama working to get stronger and healthier… and knowing skinnier will be a part of it but not the most important thing, I absolutely love this. Thanks also for the very specific recommendations for apps and sites.

    • Melissa says

      June 7, 2021 at 9:42 pm

      I know what you mean…strong and healthy are definitely the goal. Believe it or not, I am a *Full* 200 lbs in these pictures…but strong AF. Skinny is not in my genes. Good luck to you, and check out the sites when it’s time…you’ll love them! 🙂

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